Heart & Soul

Mistress Alisa challenges a deceptive mindset that prevents many men from embracing a healthy way of life that could ultimately lead to better relationships and significantly better sex lives. Listen up, guys! If you find yourself constantly in trouble, constantly behaving in an inappropriate manner (and trying to cover those things up), constantly doing things that have an immediate payoff, but that do not offer much fulfillment in the long-run, this episode is for you.

NOTE: This episode is not for the faint of heart. Mistress Alisa digs deep and issues a heart-felt warning to those who make light of sex addiction. After years of having clients and potential clients play games with their lives, Mistress Alisa has decided to shine a light on the issue, in hopes that this important message will help someone who needs to hear it. Again, the overall tone of this episode is considerably heavier than what most listeners may be accustomed to.

Mistress gives the listener deeper insights into the inner workings of a true Domme. This segment will help other Dommes to understand their own true potential within the context of D/s, while simultaneously a helping submissive men to better understand their own value as the goodboy who serves. No games. No gimmicks. Just pure heart and soul.

In part two of this 2-part series, Mistress Alisa builds on part one and moves forward with teaching men how to take the next step in achieving a more gratifying sex life with their partners. This segment contains graphic adult content and is not appropriate for those under the age of 21.

Mistress Alisa gives an overview of what it looks like for a submissive man to follow a Dominant Female, in a healthy, loving, and productive relationship.

Mistress Alisa revisits a familiar topic and helps listeners to push ahead with clarity and focus. She speaks directly into the life of the listener on sensitive topics and helps them to identify areas in their lives that may be holding them back. If you are tired of being stuck, and you are ready for change, this podcast is for you!

Mistress Alisa addresses the ramifications of men embracing "the victim card" in order to avoid accepting responsibility for their own actions. She talks about what playing the victim card looks like and how doing so can negatively impact one's life and relationships.

In one of the sex addiction support groups that I belong to, a man posted, seeking support and accountability for the situation that he found himself. He had been struggling with an addiction of a sexual nature, which had played a role in the demise of his first marriage, and which was playing a role in creating problems in his second marriage. It became a relatively popular post, especially since there were so many that could relate to the details of his story. Having helped my clients to...

Once all of the clutter has been stripped away, you are left with that which is yours. You will be much closer to your truth when the distractions have been removed from your space. This is the ultimate goal. It is for you to live your truth. Not anyone else’s, but your own. Accomplishing this level of living is more valuable than gold.

How do you get to the point of living the life you want to live? It doesn't happen by mistake. Some people stumble into success, but no one ever finds themselves living an amazing life simply by chance. In order to get to the point that you are living your best life possible, you have to wake up. You must realize that some of the choices that you have been making aren't working for you. Then, you have to be willing to actually do something about your situation.

The dash represents the life actually lived. It represents the hopes and dreams, the love, the tears, the laughter. It also represents the disappointments, the despair, those times when the individual was absolutely shaken to his core, those times when the individual experienced the most glorious moments of his life. The dash represents that which is real and lasting. It represents legacy. And, in the midst of all of the hustle and bustle, the dash represents how the individual’s life was...

Addiction, in any form, is a parasite. The thing to remember about a parasite is that it is never finished with its host. Ever. As long as that host is able to sustain life for itself, while also sustaining life for the parasite, the parasite will continue using the host. The parasite’s work is only done when the host is dead. It is only at that time that the parasite stops its destructive work. The good news is that it is possible to break free from sexual addiction. The breakthrough for...

Men cheat for many reasons. Actually, both men and women cheat for many reasons. However, Mistress Alisa's speciality is in working with men. And, in this program, she takes a direct approacch to addressing many of the issues that men face while trying to heal broken relationships, due to infidelity. The steps provided in this segment are sure to yield results for those who follow the advice. Though the work will not be easy, it will absolutely be worth the effort for most men who chose to...

What goes on in the mind of a submissive male? Mistress Alisa is the "submissive whisperer" and She can crack the code. In this podcast, She points out 5 struggles that submissive men face in the lifestyle and in life, in general. She gives tips for working through these challenges and for coming out on the other side of them. This podcast is also great for women who may see that their male partners are struggling, but they do not seem to be able to put their finger on what the problem could...

Young men are being attracted to the lure of addiction at younger and younger ages these days. The impact that can have on a 20-year-old is massive. By the time the young man understands that he is addicted, every aspect of his life has been impacted by his obsession with p--o--r--nography. Mistress Alisa weighs-in on the issue. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

When you know your truth and you live it, then nothing and no one can stand in your way. On the journey to wholeness and healing, many who seek recovery find themselves stuck in a rutt because they live their lives like victims. They have given their power and have therefore relinquished their own ability to be strong for themselves. Thinking like a victim and acting like a victim suck the very joy out of life. If you want to live a life that is free and beautiful, one that represents that...

On a daily basis, sex addicts face extremely negative feelings like: judgment, guilt, shame, embarrassment, self-doubt, and even self-hatred. They wonder how to break free from addiction in order to be the people they have always wanted to be, and in order to live the lives that they have always wanted to live. When faced with all the unhealthy behaviors that they seem absolutely obsessed with, it can be overwhelming to even think about how it could be possible to live a full and rewarding...

Mistress Alisa receives several messages of inquiry from men who identify as Dominant. In this segment, she explains why she has, thus far, refused to work with such individuals. This is the story of Mistress Alisa and the "dominant" male who inspired this segment. It is also an invitation for any truly Dominant males in the lifestyle to reach out to Mistress Alisa. She would love to hear from you! For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

This podcast was inspired by yet another real-life situation. Mistress Alisa talks about the patterns that a specific client has found himself in for over 2 decades. She uses this case study to help shine a light on the decisions and behaviors that keep people going in cycles that they claim they want to break out of. If you find yourself in the midst of tumultuous relationship cycles, there is going to be a common denominator: you. Mistress Alisa helps talks about breaking dysfunctional...

In this segment, Mistress Alisa helps addicts to understand what to expect from counselors, as well as what addicts need to be able to expect from themselves. Addicts are required to work for their own freedom. The truth is that no one can "fix" you. This is your journey and others can support you, at best. But there is no one who can "fix" you or take all of your problems away. Consider the amount of time that you invested in getting yourself into a precarious situation. Now, expect to have...