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Send us a text Season 4, Episode 535: Queer Erotica and Drag: Embracing Spicy Art Forms with Titus Androgynous. Join Ruan Willow in this captivating episode as she dives into the world of queer erotica and performance art with the talented Titus Androgynous. Titus, a transmasculine, non-binary writer and performer from Toronto, Canada, shares their journey through various art forms, including burlesque, drag, and erotica writing. With works featured in acclaimed publications like Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year and Listen to Your Skin, Titus brings a unique perspective on gender, sexuality, and the art of performance. In this episode, Titus discusses the intersection of gender performance and erotic storytelling, exploring how embracing different gender expressions can be both freeing and empowering. They share their experiences as a drag king and the challenges of leaning into sexiness on stage. Titus also reads their story "Demon Lover," a poignant tale that intertwines themes of mental health, anxiety, and sensuality. Quote from Titus Androgynous: "No one was going to take me seriously until I took myself seriously." Guest Bio: Titus Androgynous (they/them) is a transmasc nonbinary writer and performer from Toronto, Canada. Their queer erotica has been included in several publications including Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 6; Listen to Your Skin: An Anthology of Queer and Self-Love; and I Write the Body: Queer and Trans Kink, Desire and Defiance. Titus has performed and created pieces in genres including burlesque, sketch comedy, clown and Shakespeare. They have been performing nationally and internationally as a drag king since 2013. Titus is one of the founding authors of Theo Reads, the newest and best place to read spicy stories online. Book: (affiliate link, podcast may earn a commission) Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 6 https://amzn.to/3CHdrRi 00:01:30 " You're also a singer and an actor and you do spicy art forms 00:02:28 " we can talk about gender and performance 00:09:06 " You know that some people will be reading these stories as a form of sexual play 00:10:55 " Is there really a difference between drag and burlesque 00:14:38 " I'm going back a bit about gender and Gender performance 00:19:34 " There's no room for improv in burlesque because you're working with music 00:20:25 " For the writing you really have to trust yourself. For the presentation you have to wait 00:21:55 " A lot of fiction focuses on that young age and the newness of that 00:25:42 " Would you be willing to read something for us? Absolutely. So this is a piece that will be available on Theo Reads 00:42:49 " When you sit down to write something, what's the first thing that grips you 00:44:05 " Do you consider yourself more of a pantser or a plotter 00:49:20 " Community involvement versus watching with someone else and watching their reactions 00:54:31 " How many times do male authors get sold compared to female authors 00:56:42 " Theo Reads 01:01:26 " People are judging those books by their cover, right headliner app Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Season 4, Episode 534: Holiday erotica! Christmas erotic audio! Holiday spice comes in many flavors, but this one is for your libido. Get cozy with some juicy feel-good stories that will jingle your bell, multiple times, and set the tone for your holiday season to sexy. Snag some time to get comfy and delight your ears, give your inner naughty elf a treat, and don't forget to sit on Santa's lap and confess if you've been naughty or nice. Either way, you deserve this book. Warning! The heat may sizzle your passion to new climactic levels and light up your holiday with excessive amounts of saucy holiday cheer! Get ready to snag your gift of pleasures! Happy holidays and enjoy the erotic fiction! This audiobook contains spicy open door sex scenes focused on sexuality and intimate relationships. Stories in order: 1. Santa Gives the 12 Orgasms of Christmas 2. Santa's Ride 3. My Elf Boyfriend Takes Me Shopping with a Toy 4. Naughty Santa 5. Unwrap Me by the Tree Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Season 4, Episode 533: Erotica Anthology Excerpts 1: Hotwife, Age Gap Hotwife, FFM Threesome by Lacey Cross, Lillia Wett, Delores Swallows. Enjoy three erotica excerpts from a CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Get the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. MEET THE AUTHORS! Lacey Cross: Lacey Cross is a writer of wife-sharing erotica with over 100 short stories published since she started in 2021. Her stories emphasize the pleasure found from the wife living her best slut life and embracing the hotwife lifestyle. She explores themes of free use, submissive wives with dominant bulls, BDSM... and oh-so-many men. https://www.lacey-cross.net/ Lillia Wett: Lillia Wett specializes in erotica about naughty older women and the younger men who know how to please them. Sometimes, it's just a fling but who knows when a romance might pop up? If you're into that kind of thing, has she got the books for you! https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B08WHQFGQB Delores Swallows: Delores Swallows has many dirty thoughts and, during his free time, he writes them down in the form of stories. Born and bred in the north of England, he has a commoner's accent and a bit of a crush on his future queen. https://www.amazon.com/stores/Delores-Swallows/author/B00RHUCSME Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). Now get Ruan's signed paperbacks in these stores! HEA Bookshop https://www.heabookshop.com/ Heart of the South Crafting Co. https://heart-of-the-south-crafting-co.square.site/ Booked and Hooked (coming soon!) https://linktr.ee/bookedandhooked Podcast host Ruan Willow writes erotica and erotic romance fiction, spicy fiction, sexuality, and creates audiobooks as well. Find her books and audiobooks for entertainment and arts at http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 532: Exploring Deliciously Dark Romance and Reverse Age Gap with Author GiGi Meier. In this captivating episode, Ruan Willow welcomes GiGi Meier, a romance author who crafts stories of strong female characters and their complex, swoon-worthy partners. After a 30-year corporate career, Gigi now writes romance novels that linger in the hearts of readers, filled with panty-dropping lust and enviable love. GiGi shares her unique approach to storytelling, offering the first book in each of her series for free on her website, allowing readers to experience her writing style before committing. She discusses her two main series: the dark and intense Canyon series, and the steamy, fun Cougars and Cubs series, which explores reverse age gap dynamics. Throughout the conversation, GiGi delves into her writing process, the importance of creating relatable characters, and the power of intimate, explicit scenes to push a story forward. She also addresses the challenges of balancing writing with marketing, and the importance of finding support within the writing community. This episode is a must-listen for romance readers and aspiring authors alike, offering insights into the world of romance writing, and indie publishing, and the journey of creating compelling characters and stories. Connect with GiGi Meier https://www.gigimeier.com/ Books: (affiliate links, commission on purchases may go to the podcast, which supports the continuation of this podcast, thank you for your support) Marco (The Cougars and Cubs Series, Book 5) https://amzn.to/4fh7Pfi Tomlin https://amzn.to/48IsG8I The Canon Series Dark Romance https://amzn.to/3CeY8za Sebastian (The Cougars and Cubs) https://amzn.to/4hEmXow Paolo (The Cougars and Cubs) https://amzn.to/4fg50v1 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/GiGi-Meier/author/B0BCR5KWQ2 Chapters-Author Interview - 05:20 - Meet GiGi Meier: From Corporate office to Romance Writing - 10:45 - Free Books and Writing Series - 15:30 - Crafting Characters and Writing Style - 25:00 - Exploring Dark Romance and Reverse Age Gap - 35:15 - The Role of Explicit Scenes in Storytelling - 45:00 - Writing Process and Marketing Challenges - 55:30 - Finding Support and Overcoming Obstacles - 01:05:00 - Advice for Aspiring Writers Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Mallory and Derek Attend Swinger Sex Parties, Part 8: The Winter Ball, The Sexy Boudoir and Sex Photo Shoot, the episode's main characters are Mallory and Max, Age Gap romance, voyeurism, exhibitionism, polyamory. An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex. Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437 Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723 Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847 Want part 4? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15865234 Crave part 5? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15905996 Need part 6? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15951136 Seeking Part 7? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16007180 Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Give your sexual health and mental health a treat and have a listen! Stay tuned for part 8 coming next week! Enjoy the spicy romance fiction! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Image from Pexels. Subscribe to the exclusive level for $3 a month to enjoy the padlocked episodes. Join Ruan's Substack for the text version too: https://ruanwillow.substack.com/ or Support the show at Patreon, link below. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 530: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 5. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too! Plus, other new book releases! Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Spring Break & Stranded with her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men: On the Court Reverse Harem, why choose, mild impact play, multiple partner, sexual empowerment and exploration: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbffsbrothersplus6menonthecourtrw Taboo version https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1627596 https://edenbooks.com/product/spring-break-stranded-with-her-bffs-brothers-plus-6-men-on-the-court-book-3/ CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 529: Unlocking the Secrets to Women's Pleasure, Empowerment, and Sexual Well-being, Embracing Pleasure with Danielle Savory - A Journey to Empowerment. In this enlightening episode, Ruan Willow is joined by Danielle Savory, a sex and intimacy coach, podcast host, and advocate for women's pleasure and wellbeing. Together, they delve into the critical importance of prioritizing sexual health and pleasure in one's life. Danielle shares her insights on how neglecting this aspect can lead to a less fulfilled life and how embracing it can lead to empowerment and personal growth. Discover the biological and physiological benefits of pleasure, and how societal norms often hinder our natural desires. Danielle and Ruan discuss the misconceptions surrounding female pleasure and self care, the impact of societal shame, and the importance of communication with partners. They also explore the transformative power of understanding one's own body and the liberation that comes with shedding shame and embracing sexual wellness. Whether you're looking to enhance your own sexual wellbeing or seeking to understand the dynamics of pleasure more deeply, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Danielle emphasizes the need for personal motivation and finding a "why" that resonates with you to truly embrace and prioritize pleasure in your life. Sexual health is a part of mental health. Learn more about Danielle at https://www.daniellesavory.com/ 01:08 Ruan Willow says many women put their sexual health on the back burner 08:47 When we are in stress cycles, our nervous system becomes more vulnerable 14:56 Shaking is your body's way of getting rid of trauma and stress 18:15 What are some reasons women are denying the indulgence of sexual pleasure 25:29 I think we need to accept that we're gonna mess up along the way 29:59 One thing I never knew about my vulva area is color change 35:41 Women can also multiple orgasm, whereas... 40:17 Studies on how long women take to reach arousal versus climax are getting shorter 47:19 Danielle says women need a place to celebrate pleasure 51:59 Your resistance to pleasure will never stop because your life is changing Don't miss out on this episode that could change the way you view pleasure and its role in your life. Tune in and start your journey towards a more empowered and pleasurable life today! Find Danielle Savory on Instagram at @thepracticeofpleasure and explore her podcast It's My Pleasure for more insights. Show notes created by https://headliner.app Quotes from Danielle Savory; "A pleasured woman is an empowered woman." "Our nervous system thinks you're a tiger right now. Let me soothe my nervous system and then we can get back to being human beings." "Find your reason, but you've got to find a why that really resonates and makes sense to you in order to actually make a change." Quotes from Ruan Willow: "Pleasure is a birthright. This is what our bodies were meant to do." "We weren't given our taste buds to not taste foods." Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 528: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 4. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too! Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for one more chapter coming next week! CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). Spring Break & Stranded with her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men: On the Court Reverse Harem, why choose, mild impact play, multiple partner, sexual empowerment and exploration: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbffsbrothersplus6menonthecourtrw Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Ep 527: Mallory and Derek Attend Sex Parties part 7 FCKED in a ball gown. An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex. This episode is Mallory and Derek are readying to attend the winter ball party, but both Mallory and Derek have had dates with others. Mallory comes home with a surprise they both have fun with, but Derek must work through some feelings. Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437 Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723 Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847 Want part 4? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15865234 Crave part 5? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15905996 Need part 6? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15951136 Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Give your sexual health and mental health a treat and have a listen! Stay tuned for part 8 coming next week! Enjoy the spicy romance fiction! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow Subscribe to the exclusive level for $3 a month to enjoy the padlocked episodes. Join Ruan's Substack for the text version too: https://ruanwillow.substack.com/ or Support the show at Patreon, link below. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 526: From Lifesaver to Dominatrix, Mistress Kora Bell Shares her Spicy New Adventures! Kora Bell is a dynamic personality with a unique journey from the medical field to becoming a renowned dominatrix and adult content creator. Discover how she navigated the transition from a respiratory therapist to embracing her adventurous spirit and exploring her passion for femdom content. Mistress Kora Bell shares her intriguing life story, from her early days in the medical field to her transformative experiences that lead to her eventual foray into the world of OnlyFans and dominatrix sessions. Listen as she discusses the challenges and triumphs of balancing personal growth, motherhood, and a burgeoning career in adult entertainment. Explore the intricacies of BDSM, the importance of consent, and the empowerment that comes from embracing one's sexuality. Mistress Kora Bell opens up about her experiences at various adult industry and Exxxotica events, her love for motorcycle riding, swinging lifestyle, and the meaningful stories behind her tattoos. This episode is a fascinating glimpse into the life of a woman who defies conventions and embraces her true self, all while helping others explore their own sexual identities. 00:00:33 Mistress Kora Bell shoots Fem Dom content in addition to traditional 00:01:56 I'm actually an RN too 00:02:19 Tell us a little bit about your story. 00:09:10 Why is everything so sex negative? Why do people think sex is bad? 00:10:11 When you got fired 00:15:19 You have a medical background in what you do now 00:16:05 Do you have favorite paraphernalia 00:18:02 Are there a lot of clubs near you 00:19:11 Do you feel like you miss the medical field at all or you just 00:21:22 Did you ever have any issues with people pushing back with your lifestyle 00:26:46 You split up with your husband 00:29:03 You say you learned about sexuality through experience and research 00:35:04 The importance of testing is something that needs to be promoted more 00:37:05 orgies depend on the atmosphere and your connection with people 00:38:32 Do you tend to have a connection with people you shoot with 00:41:09 Do you have specific scenarios you love to do in films 00:42:23 Would you ever take a role where you're a submissive 00:43:29 Tell us something about yourself recently that surprised you 00:51:00 Tell us about your tattoos and what they represent 00:56:41 Tell us about your motorcycle riding 00:59:33 Have you taken sexy pics on your bike? I have, yes 01:08:55 Talk about your dogs 01:10:50 Do you have any advice for people to explore their sexuality better 01:13:01 Do you have a favorite sex toy https://www.mistresskorabell.com/ Show notes with https://headliner.app Trick or Treat II anthology (affiliate links, podcast may receive a commission): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Not So Guilty Charity anthology: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityantholog Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 525: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 3. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too! Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for one more chapter coming next week! CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Note: Reading in public may cause spontaneous fanning, uncontrollable grins, and an irresistible urge to wink at strangers. Proceed with caution and a tall glass of water! Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Season 4, Episode 524: An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. This episode is Mallory and Derek Attend a New Year's Eve Party, Part 6, More Sexy Age Gap Fun! Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437 Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723 Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847 Want part 4? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15865234 Crave part 5? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15905996 Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Give your sexual health and mental health a treat and have a listen! Stay tuned for part 7 coming next week! Enjoy the spicy romance fiction! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow Subscribe to the exclusive level for $3 a month to enjoy the padlocked episodes. Join Ruan's Substack for the text version too: https://ruanwillow.substack.com/ or Support the show at Patreon, link below. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 523: Join Ruan Willow in a captivating conversation with Parneet, the co-founder of Theo Reads, a groundbreaking platform dedicated to publishing romance and spicy stories. This episode dives deep into the inspiration behind Theo Reads, a space that promises to break taboos around desire and provide readers with a wide range of tropes, kinks, and spice levels without the censorship found elsewhere. Parneet shares her journey from a seasoned marketing expert to a passionate advocate for romance and spice literature. She discusses the challenges faced by authors in the current publishing landscape and how Theo Reads aims to create a safe, inclusive space for both readers and writers. Discover how this platform plans to revolutionize the way we consume and appreciate romantic and spicy narratives, catering to every fantasy from mild to extra spicy. Explore the unique features of Theo Reads, including their commitment to well-written stories, engaging plotlines, and diverse characters. Learn about the importance of normalizing desire and intimacy across all communities and the critical role of romance and spice in enhancing personal relationships and wellbeing. Quote from Parneet "It's 2024, people. Enough with the guilt and the shame. Can we just normalize desire and intimacy?" Quote from Ruan Willow "Sex is natural. It's a part of being a human." Attention all romance authors and writers, indie authors, self publishing authors, those who write about love from spicy open door themes to closed door, come join Theo Reads! https://theoreads.com/ - 02:25 - Theo says readers want well written stories and romance and spice - 08:34 - Big tech companies are telling us what to read and it needs to stop - 13:04 - Sexual health is so incredibly important to our mental wellbeing and physical well being - 15:29 - 34% of men read or listen to romance and spice, survey finds - 19:09 - Are you able to share some of the names of the authors who will be featured - 25:07 - There is a stigma about reading romance which isn't true. The average romance and spice reader is better educated than the average American - 33:32 - it's incredibly hard to publish stories on Amazon and be seen - 38:48 - On social media platforms, How can people join Theo Reads? You can write to us - 42:48 - A lot of romance stories come from marginalized communities - 47:37 - As authors and readers, we need a symbiotic relationship - 49:12 - There's a huge disconnect between where authors post and where readers read stories - 53:31 - You do whatever you feel you have to do, you know, Instagram, et cetera - 53:46 - There is a need amongst authors for data like up to date data New! Over 40 spicy romance/erotica authors have joined forces to create a charity anthology! You can get spicy stories and help a cause at the same time! Get the Not-So-Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause: A Charity Anthology. This is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 522: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 2. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for more chapters in the coming weeks! Erotica and erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, an open door HEA spicy story of romance and fantasy, with romance first and foremost in importance: Wingless Hunger, Book 1 in the Arching Hunger Series. ARC's will be available on BookSirens. The book Wingless Hunger releases on October 15th, 2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger Buy a copy and help with the launch! The book is LIVE TODAY! It's also available in Kindle Unlimited on Amazon. Find podcast host Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Check out this list of hot steamy books all available on Kindle Unlimited: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/5gLIk1D Spicy Audiobook list: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/4YFCMn1 Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Season 4, Episode 521: 18+. Join Ruan Willow in an enlightening discussion with Brianna Carey, a relationship and intimacy coach with over 16 years of experience. Brianna shares her insights into the common challenges women face in reclaiming their desire and exploring pleasure, especially after significant life transitions like childbirth. This episode delves into the importance of communication, understanding, and the use of tools like sex toys to enhance intimacy in relationships. Brianna, along with her husband Mark, a licensed professional counselor, provides couples with the guidance needed to create deeper connections and more fulfilling intimacy in their marriage while navigating the complexities of parenthood. Discover how understanding the erotic blueprints can transform your sexual expression and relationship dynamics. This episode is packed with valuable advice on embracing pleasure, the significance of self-exploration, and the benefits of incorporating tools like vibrators into your intimate life. Women, learn why it's crucial to prioritize your pleasure and connection with your partner, and how to overcome societal stigmas surrounding female sexuality. Listen in as Ruan and Brianna discuss the power of pleasure, the journey to self-discovery, and how to break free from the constraints of guilt and shame. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or explore your own desires, this episode is a must-listen. 00:01:29 " Many women decide they don't want sex after having a baby 00:08:02 " External stimulation is so important during pregnancy and postpartum care 00:12:45 " You work with women who are ready to take ownership of their pleasure 00:16:11 " About 85% of women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm 00:21:58 " Bullet 00:26:58 " Use lubricants 100% in the bedroom, not just vibrators 00:27:41 " The erotic blueprints help you understand each other and how to communicate 00:32:52 " The first year postpartum is so crucial for a relationship 00:36:58 " What drove you to create your podcast, and what type of things do 00:41:51 " Women need to take 30 minutes a week to relax and enjoy their bodies Connect with Brianna: https://www.intimacyevolution.com/ Quotes from Brianna: "If you don't use it, you lose it, applies to your libido and orgasms." "Every woman deserves to experience their pleasure to the absolute fullest and know what desire is and create that." "Release the expectation of an end result, and you will see how much more you're able to enjoy it." Quotes from Ruan: "Why does our culture have to see it differently when it's our genitals, it's just another part of our body." "We are sexual beings. We are. It's okay to enjoy it. It's okay to want it." Books: Servicing the Work Men https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures I Dare You https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. This episode is Mallory and Derek Attend a New Year's Eve Party, Part 5, Sensual MILF sex for Derek and Mallory gets spanked. Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437 Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723 Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847 Want part 4? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15865234 Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Give your sexual health and mental health a treat and have a listen! Stay tuned for part 6 coming next week! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow Subscribe to the exclusive level for $3 a month to enjoy the padlocked episodes. Join Ruan's Substack for the text version too: https://ruanwillow.substack.com/ or Support the show at Patreon, link below. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Episode 519: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 1. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for more chapters in the coming weeks! Erotica and erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, an open door HEA spicy story of romance and fantasy, with romance first and foremost in importance: Wingless Hunger, Book 1 in the Arching Hunger Series. ARC's will be available on BookSirens. The book Wingless Hunger releases on October 15th, 2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger Reserve a copy in presale and help with the launch! GET AN ARC of Wingless Hunger: https://forms.gle/fG9pWHX8HRgXE3q5A Find podcast host Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Check out this list of hot steamy books all available on Kindle Unlimited: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/5gLIk1D Spicy Audiobook list: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/4YFCMn1 Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Episode 518: Dominance, Desire, & Spicy Romance with author Lizzie B. Brown! Lizzie is a romance author who packs the spice into every story. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her family and two dogs. When she's not writing about bisexual besties or forbidden romances, you can find her by the fireplace with a book in one hand and a glass of red wine in the other. Find out more: http://www.lizziebbrown.com/ Welcome to our writing chat! We dive into the steamy world of romance and erotica. We explore the importance of including sex in romance stories to give readers the full picture of a relationship. We discuss Lizzie's book, Obedience, Volume One, (excerpt in the episode), a captivating age-gap romance where the female lead takes charge, challenging the conventional dynamics often seen in such stories. Discover how Lizzie's experiences and love for storytelling have shaped her writing process, from fanfiction beginnings to publishing on platforms like Kindle Vella. Lizzie also shares insights into her writing routine, the challenges of editing, and the significance of patience and perseverance in the writing journey. If you're a fan of romance that embraces the raw, unfiltered aspects of relationships, you won't want to miss this episode. 00:02:10 " romance is incomplete if it doesn't have sex 00:07:34 " I think erotica helps people become more open about their sexuality 00:10:43 " You started writing erotic fan fiction early on 00:12:12 " Pantser or plotter? 00:15:01 " write on my phone more often than not because I'm easily distracted 00:17:03 " I really love age gap romance. But I know some people don't like 00:22:46 " Do you find you have more female readers or male readers 00:29:11 " Reading a book together can be a great conversation starter 00:29:44 " Do you have a favorite and worst part of the writing process 00:32:55 " I actually started writing again because of audiobooks 00:41:30 " Vella 00:46:18 " Do you find you ever have to do much research? 00:47:27 " What was an early experience where you learned that language had power 00:49:01 " Do you tend to share your work with people in your life 00:54:12 " What do you define as success as an author? 01:00:29 " Is there any advice you have for someone considering doing... BOOKS! Obedience Volume One (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, thanks for the support): https://amzn.to/3TVBHoM Vella https://amzn.to/4dBYGMB Friendsgiving with Benefits: https://amzn.to/47VwnaL Erotica & erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, open door romance, HEA, fantasy Wingless Hunger https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger GET AN ARC: https://forms.gle/WKJhu3wyQvRora6e6 Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ assisted by headliner Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Season 4, Episode 517: Mallory and Derek Attend Sex Parties An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club who throws sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. This episode is Mallory and Derek Attend a New Year's Eve Party, Part 4, Shower scene and hot tub age gap swinger swap. Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437 Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723 Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847 Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Give your sexual health and mental health a treat and have a listen! Stay tuned for part 5 coming next week! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow Subscribe to the exclusive level for $3 a month to enjoy the padlocked episodes. Join Ruan's Substack for the text version too: https://ruanwillow.substack.com/ or Support the show at Patreon, link below. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Season 4, Episode 516: ASMR Journey Daddy Dom and Sub Smut Scene, plus bonus replaying of Relax, Arouse, Climax, Ride the Guided Pleasure. Enjoy a sensual sound filled experience of a Dominant and his sub as they play, pleasure, and climax. Lots of 'good girl's' are spilled as are rolling waves of bursting satiation as the two interact. Indulge in your guilty pleasures and have a listen. Also enjoy the bonus replaying of another ASMR: Relax, Arouse, Climax, & Ride the Guided Journey of ASMR Pleasure. Enoy this meditation fantasy told in Ruan's soothing yet arousing voice. You own your sexuality, your own experience, baby, take it, it's yours and yours alone...unless you want to give it away that is. Either way, you decide because you own it. No one can take your sexuality away from you. Grab the reigns in your life and search for ways of expanding personal growth in your own sexuality and sexual wellness. Sexual health is a part of your mental health, don't ignore it. Listen to this erotic audio for self care, stress relief, and entertainment enjoyment. This episode was sponsored by Naughty Nook PR: providing spicy romance author and reader services, find out more information at: website: www.naughtynookpr.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/naughtynookpr/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@naughtynookpr Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564879741003 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@naughtynookpr Erotica and erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romanasty, an open door HEA spicy story of romance and fantasy, with romance first and foremost in importance: Wingless Hunger, Book 1 in the Arching Hunger Series. ARC's will be available on BookSirens. The book Wingless Hunger releases on October 15th, 2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger Reserve a copy in presale and help with the launch! Find post host Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge