Other People's Words
Lissa Soep
An illuminating, intricately woven memoir about friendships, loss, and language—a stunning affirmation of the conversations that shape and sustain us, even in the presence of death
Lissa Soep lost two friends in quick succession. Christine died slowly, from a mysterious illness, while Jonnie died suddenly, too young. In the ten years since, Soep has found herself among those left behind—spouses, lovers, family, friends—whose grief could have rendered them silent, at a loss for words. Instead, she has discovered the opposite: a wild and inexhaustible dialogue unleashed by their absence.
Other People’s Words is an incandescent tribute to deep friendship, honoring this lasting bond that has no special name and showing us how we can both cherish and grieve our loved ones through the words that have described and defined our lifetimes. Soep traces intimacy and longing through everyday conversations, in fragments of text messages, letters, postcards, emails, poems, voicemails. Inspired by the Russian philosopher Mikhail Bakhtin’s idea that our language is “overflowing with other people’s words,” Soep realizes that her friends’ words, remembered and imagined, are portals to other times and places, to other versions of ourselves and the ones we love. Dialogues do not end when a relationship or person is gone; they accrue new layers of meaning, continuing to echo, speak, and guide us forward.
As Soep discovers through this tapestry of conversations, language—as with love—is boundless. Our words are never locked into a single moment or limited to a single lifetime; they contain an “inner infinity.” Other People’s Words is an intimate, original, and profoundly generous look at the power of language to nurture life amid the wreckage of loss, in this moment and beyond.
Featuring a bonus interview with the author, Mercy Carbonell and Emily Newmann.
Duration - 23h 59m.
Author - Lissa Soep.
Narrator - Lissa Soep.
Published Date - Tuesday, 16 January 2024.
Copyright - © 2024 Lissa Soep ©.
Location:
United States
Description:
An illuminating, intricately woven memoir about friendships, loss, and language—a stunning affirmation of the conversations that shape and sustain us, even in the presence of death Lissa Soep lost two friends in quick succession. Christine died slowly, from a mysterious illness, while Jonnie died suddenly, too young. In the ten years since, Soep has found herself among those left behind—spouses, lovers, family, friends—whose grief could have rendered them silent, at a loss for words. Instead, she has discovered the opposite: a wild and inexhaustible dialogue unleashed by their absence. Other People’s Words is an incandescent tribute to deep friendship, honoring this lasting bond that has no special name and showing us how we can both cherish and grieve our loved ones through the words that have described and defined our lifetimes. Soep traces intimacy and longing through everyday conversations, in fragments of text messages, letters, postcards, emails, poems, voicemails. Inspired by the Russian philosopher Mikhail Bakhtin’s idea that our language is “overflowing with other people’s words,” Soep realizes that her friends’ words, remembered and imagined, are portals to other times and places, to other versions of ourselves and the ones we love. Dialogues do not end when a relationship or person is gone; they accrue new layers of meaning, continuing to echo, speak, and guide us forward. As Soep discovers through this tapestry of conversations, language—as with love—is boundless. Our words are never locked into a single moment or limited to a single lifetime; they contain an “inner infinity.” Other People’s Words is an intimate, original, and profoundly generous look at the power of language to nurture life amid the wreckage of loss, in this moment and beyond. Featuring a bonus interview with the author, Mercy Carbonell and Emily Newmann. Duration - 23h 59m. Author - Lissa Soep. Narrator - Lissa Soep. Published Date - Tuesday, 16 January 2024. Copyright - © 2024 Lissa Soep ©.
Language:
English
Opening Credits
Duration:00:17:28
Dedication
Duration:00:06:50
Epigraph
Duration:00:25:53
Itaru Sasaki Bought
Duration:02:47:09
I Had Two
Duration:01:51:41
You Should Come.mp3
Duration:03:59:30
Mercy and I
Duration:03:50:49
Mercy Sat Down
Duration:05:42:17
In An Anthropology
Duration:04:51:08
Roma Had An
Duration:03:22:19
For Years When
Duration:05:57:48
Emily and Jonnie
Duration:08:37:10
Mikhail Mikhailovich Bakhtin
Duration:06:44:00
Spring Break 1997
Duration:04:47:52
There's Daddy's Bag
Duration:02:48:49
There Was A
Duration:06:12:06
In The Months
Duration:05:19:33
When Mercy Was
Duration:05:10:24
After Three Years
Duration:03:59:50
One Of Bakhtin's
Duration:11:22:14
Just Before The
Duration:05:53:45
Five Years Later
Duration:06:30:19
There's A Passage
Duration:06:14:35
In The Months 2
Duration:06:18:22
Time Passed
Duration:02:46:17
If I Can
Duration:04:15:26
Mercy Fell For
Duration:04:03:01
I Had A
Duration:05:56:04
Emily Has A
Duration:07:51:38
Mercy and Christine
Duration:04:11:39
Christine Moved To
Duration:08:18:36
In 2013 Christine
Duration:03:47:57
All Through Spring
Duration:03:13:44
July 2013
Duration:05:34:29
We Stopped In
Duration:02:30:12
August 2013
Duration:03:38:45
Fall Came
Duration:01:51:23
September 2013
Duration:02:35:57
October 2013
Duration:01:43:11
The CAT Scan
Duration:04:46:39
My Neurology Appointment
Duration:01:12:38
Will Mail Your
Duration:00:34:46
I Crashed On
Duration:01:11:33
Jamie Went Up
Duration:02:09:43
Christine No Longer
Duration:09:12:38
Jamie Sensed That
Duration:04:07:51
Hey Christine
Duration:00:42:16
Christine Could Barely
Duration:00:43:19
Fall 2014
Duration:05:35:01
From Inside A
Duration:00:09:09
You Should Come 2
Duration:07:19:18
On That Visit
Duration:03:41:48
I Have Heard
Duration:06:28:50
Long Before Bakhtin's
Duration:03:53:50
With Illness And
Duration:03:54:32
One Night
Duration:06:04:02
Filling Speech With
Duration:00:43:32
There Was A 2
Duration:07:03:15
Before All This
Duration:03:37:03
In One Of
Duration:05:26:00
Three Years After
Duration:04:48:28
A Few Weeks
Duration:04:11:57
Over The Years
Duration:02:33:07
I Came Home
Duration:03:07:54
I'd Finished A
Duration:07:37:23
In 2022
Duration:02:55:49
In 2023
Duration:11:22:17
In The Essay
Duration:01:07:56
Mercy Has A
Duration:01:24:11
Acknowledgements
Duration:09:43:08
About the Author
Duration:00:45:19
Closing Credits
Duration:00:39:41