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Discover actionable practices to get insight and clarity about your ideas and create strategies to solve your challenges. Listen to deep-dive interviews with 2SLGBTQ+ thought leaders and change-makers who are creating a more accepting, equitable, and humane world — with a focus on Canadian history and social justice issues. Think Queerly is a hosted by Writer & Coach, Darren Stehle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Toronto, ON

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Discover actionable practices to get insight and clarity about your ideas and create strategies to solve your challenges. Listen to deep-dive interviews with 2SLGBTQ+ thought leaders and change-makers who are creating a more accepting, equitable, and humane world — with a focus on Canadian history and social justice issues. Think Queerly is a hosted by Writer & Coach, Darren Stehle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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English

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Episodes
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Is History Repeating? What the Rise of Fascism and Dictatorships Can Tell Us About How to Act, Now

8/3/2024
Here's an alternative to reading the news, getting upset, and wondering how we can stop anti-2SLGBTQ prejudice and hate-fuelled movements: Study and understand history. What's happening in the world today, is not just about 2SLGBTQ rights and freedoms, it's about our common humanity and the ethical belief that no one person is superior to another. Links mentioned in the episode can be found on my website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:23:27

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Is History Repeating? What the Rise of Fascism and Dictatorships Can Tell Us About How to Act, Now

8/2/2024
Here's an alternative to reading the news, getting upset, and wondering how we can stop anti-2SLGBTQ prejudice and hate-fuelled movements: study and understand history. What's happening today, is not just about 2SLGBTQ rights and freedoms, it's about our common humanity and the ethical belief that no one person is superior to another. Resources: Think Queerly Interview: Tim McCaskellResurrection PodcastMark SegalThe VillageMaking Gay HistoryParagraph 175TrailerEgale Rainbow Action Hub

Duration:00:23:27

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How Do We Reconcile Polarities Like Right versus Wrong?

7/3/2024
With so many extreme challenges and divisive political polarization in the world, we need to think logically and broadly to understand the complexities of the challenge and find an ethical and humane path forward to solve these problems while respecting human dignity.

Duration:00:10:08

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Personal Update: I've Made a Significant Career Change

11/6/2022
Recently, I made a significant change in my life — not quite a new direction, but a new path that's in alignment with what I stand for, my skills, my interests, and what brings meaning to my life. I came to a point in my career where I needed greater financial stability. I started looking into impact-driven community organizations that are working to make a meaningful difference — preferably for LGBTQ+ individuals. --- Discover how we can work together if you're an LGBTQ+ creator or change-maker. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:25:05

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Pride at Work Canada with Director of Programs, Jade Pichette

10/23/2022
Jade Pichette (they/them) is an inclusion, diversity, equity, and accessibility professional based in Tkarón:to/Toronto. Currently Jade serves as the Director of Programs at Pride at Work Canada where they work with over 250 large employers across Canada around gender expression, gender identity, and sexual orientation inclusion. Previously Jade served as the Volunteer and Community Outreach Coordinator at The ArQuives, the Education Programs Coordinator at Kind Space, and they continue to run an independent inclusion and diversity consulting business as well as serving as an Ásatrú Gythia (priestess) of Vindisir Kindred. They were one of the authors of the Transitioning Employers: A survey of policies and practices for trans inclusive workplaces and the cohost of the Uncovering Belonging Podcast. In their spare time they can be found geeking out over queer, trans, and Norse histories, fire-keeping, and spending time with their chosen family. You can watch the video here: https://darrenstehle.substack.com/p/pride-at-work-canada-jade-pichette ------- ☞ Discover more about how we can work together. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:57:47

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Interview with Mark J Silverman: Executive Coach, Speaker, Podcaster, and Best-Selling Author

10/7/2022
In this episode, we talk about Mark recently turning 60, the fallacy of multi-passionate creatives, and what success really means. But our primary focus is Mark's signature approach to productivity, his Only 10s framework. He jokes that if you were to show him your to-do list, it would be like reading tarot cards. He would be able to tell you in an instant what you value, what you like and dislike, and what you're afraid of doing. Show notes, links, and watch the interview on video at Queering Self-Mastery with Darren Stehle. ------ If you’re a creative change-maker who is struggling to make an impact and create a successful business that you love, let’s meet for a free a discovery coaching session. I’ll help you get the clarity you need to determine your next most productive steps and to get back on track. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:48:22

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When You Freely Love Who You Are, You Can Freely Create a Life You Love

9/21/2022
Many people think that you need to come out to be your "authentic self." If you're in the closet and thinking about coming out, or if you know of someone who's struggling, this episode is about getting clear about your emotional reasons for coming out, and how you can prepare to be as ready — for when it feels "right" for you to come out and freely create a life you love. As mentioned in the episode, if you want to talk with someone about how to come out, or if you're dealing with shame around your gender or sexual identity, let's meet for a private conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:17:01

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WEBINAR: The 3 Es of Efficient Productivity for Creators to Enjoy Greater Happiness & Success

9/7/2022
If you were more efficient in your daily work routine, what would that look like? Most importantly, how would you enjoy and celebrate your time off, knowing that you did your best? If you're not sure how to answer any of the above questions or would like to increase your efficiency to enjoy more of LIFE, please join me for my next, free webinar: The 3 Es of Efficient Productivity for Creators and Change-Makers to Enjoy Greater Happiness and Success Are you a creator or a change-maker who...

Duration:00:02:53

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The Power of Self-Mastery for Queer Individuals to Strive Higher for the Common Good

9/2/2022
In this episode, I speak with Leadership and Organizational Development Coach, Jeremy Long about the power of self-mastery for queer people. Jeremy Long is a Queer man, Coach, and founder of the Conscious Queer Community. He also is the owner of Enhance Leadership as a Leadership and Organizational Development Coach. Click here for the show notes, video, and links mentioned in the episode: ☞ https://darrenstehle.substack.com/p/coach-jeremy-long Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:56:34

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I Knew I Was Gay When I Was Five Years Old

8/26/2022
"Until I was 19 (in 1984), and for almost 15 years, I felt a combination of fear, guilt, shame, unrequited desire, silence, isolation, and otherness." Self-examination and knowing the events, the people, the environments, and the conditions that shaped your past are useful information. This is your personal narrative — and you can do with it what you please. In my case, I was determined to live better in the now than I had been living in my past. The complete show notes are published on Queering Self-Mastery. Sign up for practical tips and strategies for queer-thinking creators and change-makers to create a joyful life, accomplish your goals, and make a difference. --------------- If you’re a creator or change-maker who is struggling to make a difference and create a thriving business that you love, let’s meet for a free 90-minute discovery coaching session. I’d like to find out what motivates you and how you want to make a difference in the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:20:12

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What Is Queering Self-Mastery?

8/12/2022
In this re-cast of the inaugural episode of the Queering Self-Mastery Podcast, I explain, ☞ Subscribe to Queering Self-Mastery. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:23:46

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WEBINAR: How to Manage the 3 Es of Efficient Productivity for Creators & Change-Makers

8/10/2022
Read the post and watch the in-depth video for, "How to Use the 3 Es of Self-Mastery Framework to Create Greater Efficiency, Happiness, and Success in Your Life. ☞ Follow the instructions at the end of the post to register for the webinar and to enter the draw to win 3-months of coaching with me!

Duration:00:02:22

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Interview with Michelle Douglas, Executive Director, LGBT Purge Fund

7/29/2022
We start at the very beginning: why she decided to join the Canadian Military. Douglas shares her story of what that was like, falling in love with another woman in her unit for the first time, being honourably discharged, and what happened after. Ironically, Douglas worked for the Canadian Department of Justice for many years, while working in advocacy to keep the government accountable. Douglas explains how in 2016, survivors of the LGBT Purge launched a nationwide class action lawsuit against the Canadian government. She was approached to manage the resulting settlement fund reached in 2018, and the rest is history. Read the complete show notes ☞ https://darrenstehle.com/michelle-douglas-lgbt-purge-fund/ ========== Darren Stehle is a Mind-Mastery Coach who works with LGBTQ+ creators, change-makers, and thought leaders to efficiently accomplish their goals, create a life they love, and make a difference in the process. If you're a creator or change-maker who wants to enjoy life and create a thriving business that makes a difference, you'll want to subscribe to my Substack where I publish weekly in-depth self-mastery practices and efficient productivity frameworks. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:53:27

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Ever Feel Challenged to Live an Inspired Queer Life?

7/20/2022
For once, I'm the one being asked the questions! Enjoy this re-cast of the podcast, 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk, hosted by Rick Clemons. "Ever feel challenged to live an inspired queer life? Feeling aimless and not sure what is next? Fellow Queer coach Darren Stehle challenges us to take a deeper step into self-mastery, ideation, and the journey of inspired action to live our most powerful lives as gay men over 40. You’ll learn useful techniques for bringing your ideal life to life." Rick Clemons is a well-known culture disruptor (in a good way), “closet buster (coming out coach),” and bold move strategist – inspiring people to live life with no excuses, no fears, no apologies. Tapping into his 25+ years of experience in personal development, and leveraging being a late bloomer, coming out of the closet at 36, he’s created a no B.S. approach for thriving as a gay man and father – personally and professionally. Rick loves writing (Frankly My Dear I’m Gay), podcasting (Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk), facilitating out-of-the-ordinary personal development experiences and speaking to audiences across the globe on living life without apologies. He loves wine, his two grown daughters, and his husband, in that order (but don’t tell the hubby where he fits in the pecking order). Visit his website at RickClemons.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:45:50

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Webinar: Self-Mastery 101 for Queer Creators & Change-Makers

7/16/2022
Self-Mastery is choosing to know who you are and managing how you are being and showing up in the world. WHEN: Thursday, July 21, 2022 — 1 PM EST (13:00 H) WHAT: How do you get to know who you 'really' are and manage your behaviours on the path towards self-mastery? Join me for a discussion about the benefits of self-mastery on the happiness and well-being of LGBTQ+ creators, change-makers, and thought leaders. This event is entirely free to attend. REGISTRATION:...

Duration:00:02:46

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Without Core Values, You Won’t Know What You Stand For or How to Live with Integrity

7/13/2022
Without values, it’s challenging to create a long-term life plan. If you don’t know what’s most important to you, you can’t make choices based on integrity. Values are the compass that keeps you on the path to accomplishing your most meaningful goals and dreams. When you know what’s essential and meaningful, you can skillfully respond with choices and actions that are in alignment with whom you want to be. What you can control are your choices. If you make decisions in accordance with your values, you’re creating a form of prediction that increases certainty and manages your stress response to difficult situations or environments. This acts as a reminder of whom you want to be at the moment. ========== If you’re an LGBTQ+ creator, change-maker, or thought leader who is struggling with direction, priorities, and productivity, let’s meet for a conversation to discuss how you can accomplish your goals, create a life you love — and make a difference in the process. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:09:08

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What’s Wrong With Me? Here’s a Better Question to Ask Yourself.

7/6/2022
Self-talk that creates self-judgement, comparison, and shame is not self-empowering. It’s downright unhealthy and damaging to your self-esteem! If you’ve truly done something wrong you feel guilt about, own up to it. However, if you’re struggling with something not going to plan — for example, how to make more money, get a better job, or why your business isn’t growing — consider if you’re missing skills or knowledge. Ask yourself, “Am I ignorant or incompetent?” Ignorant = you don’t know something Incompetent = you’re lacking a skill The difference between staying stuck where you are or overcoming adversity is whether you’re willfully ignorant and incompetent or consciously aware of what you don’t know and the skills you’re lacking. Admitting what you don’t know is the first step toward transformation and creating a better future. If you’re struggling, doubting yourself, or wondering “What’s wrong with me?”, let’s have a conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:06:33

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Are You Living a Big Enough Dream?

6/29/2022
Ever since I was a little boy, I’ve dreamt small. I was a sickly child with severe ADHD. I had a learning disability that made it hard for me to read letters. And I was gay without knowing what that meant. Other kids and a few teachers made me feel like an outsider and not good enough. My health issues, which attracted unwanted attention, and being in the closet kept me fearful of freely expressing my truth. I was too scared to talk about it with my parents because the root of my fear was the thing I knew about myself but didn’t understand. My thoughts were, I’m no good, I’m not well, I’m not smart enough, I’ll never amount to anything. I allowed those perceptions to limit my life into my early 40s... ********** If you’re an LGBTQ+ change-maker who’s ready to transform into an impactful leader and make a difference, let's have a conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:07:42

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It Gets Better Canada: Uplifting, Empowering, and Connecting 2SLGBTQ+ Youth Across Canada

6/21/2022
In this week's episode, I speak with Omid Razavi, the Executive Director, and Ethan Berkeley-Garcia, Youth Ambassador of It Gets Better Canada. I had such a great time hosting this interview. It's clear to me how committed both Omid and Ethan are to this important organization and the impact it's had on their own lives. Complete show notes, bios, and links ☞ https://darrenstehle.com/it-gets-better-canada/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:59:52

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Cultivating Leadership That Cares About its Employees — The Role of Neuroscience in Diversity, Equity, and LGBTQ+ Inclusion.

6/15/2022
In neuroscience, the ACC is an acronym for the anterior cingulate cortex, the part of the brain commonly called the animal or mammalian brain. Most animals have basic needs like food, shelter, safety, and procreation. If those needs are met, the animal feels safe. If not, they feel higher levels of stress and threat. Humans have the same needs. The ACC has a second meaning from a personal leadership and behavioural viewpoint. In this context, the ACC stands for Acceptance, Connection, and Care (credit to my coach, Dax Moy). These are core human emotions which collectively and independently demonstrate love in the largest sense of the word. When any one of those emotional needs is not met, we do not feel safe. ☞ Read the complete article here. ********** As a queer thought leader, neuro-coach, writer, and podcaster, Darren Stehle helps LGBTQ+ creators and change-makers develop their self-mastery and go from confusion to making an impactful difference in the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Duration:00:19:18