unFAITHFUL: redeeming infidelity
Marriage
Have you experienced the pain of infidelity? Is someone you love going through it and you wonder how to support them? Do you want to hear stories and learn from the mistakes of others so you don’t end up in a crisis of your own? This show is for you! Hosts Nick and Bekah Moes, founders of Family of Hope, bring you a collection of miraculous survival stories, interviews with industry experts, and hot topics along the road to recovery. Each episode will promote hope, help, and healing for those who have experienced infidelity caused by an affair, sexual addiction, or pornography.
Location:
United States
Description:
Have you experienced the pain of infidelity? Is someone you love going through it and you wonder how to support them? Do you want to hear stories and learn from the mistakes of others so you don’t end up in a crisis of your own? This show is for you! Hosts Nick and Bekah Moes, founders of Family of Hope, bring you a collection of miraculous survival stories, interviews with industry experts, and hot topics along the road to recovery. Each episode will promote hope, help, and healing for those who have experienced infidelity caused by an affair, sexual addiction, or pornography.
Language:
English
Episodes
Common Questions
4/15/2020
You asked, so we’re answering! Today we’re responding to some of your most commonly asked questions. Do we offer private online sessions for couples in crisis? How long is too long to be angry? How do I get past the pain? How do I handle the barrage of questions and advice from my family and friends? My spouse’s infidelity includes same-sex partners, what should I do? My spouse and I have both had affairs, how do we get-to-the-bottom of all of the details and move forward?
Join us today as...
Duration:00:44:05
Staying Connected in Isolation
3/27/2020
The COVID-19 pandemic has impacted us all. Life as-we-know-it has completely changed. Navigating a global crisis in the middle of a difficult affair recovery journey is unprecedented. No doubt, this season of quarantine and fear of sickness adds unparalled pressure to your already strained relationship. Today, Nick and Bekah talk through some ideas to continue to foster deeper connection with each other even in these long, hard days of isolation. If we’re intentional to find it, there is...
Duration:00:27:34
The God Who Sees Me
2/27/2020
Ladies, this one’s for you! Bekah recently visited a women’s group in San Antonio, Texas. Join them today as she shares her story in a message called “The God Who See’s Me,” live from the Ft. Sam Houston PWOC. Shownotes available at www.myfamilyofhope.org/podcast
Duration:00:59:18
Love & Sex with Nancy Houston
2/7/2020
God had our best in mind when He created sex as an expression of intimacy. Humanity has made a mess of it since the Fall of man… but God wants to redeem every detail. On today’s show we're going to introduce you to our friend Nancy Houston. Nancy has a master’s degree in counseling, is a licensed professional counselor and is board certified as a sex therapist. She is an adjunct professor and Fellow with the Townsend Institute and a Townsend Leadership Director with groups in Portland,...
Duration:00:51:20
Crystal + Kerry's Story
2/7/2020
Years of destructive cycles leading to infidelity left Crystal and Kerry’s relationship feeling broken beyond repair. Failed attempts at counseling, and reconciliation left divorce as the only option. After a lengthy and volatile divorce process God spoke something new to each of them. It wasn’t fast, and it wasn’t easy but radical restoration came. Join us today as our friends Crystal & Kerry share how absolutely nothing is too far gone for God’s redemption! Shownotes available at...
Duration:00:51:16
How to Handle the Pain
1/8/2020
Betrayal at the hands of your spouse leaves wounds that seem impossible to heal. How do you move forward when all you see in front of you is pain? As you journey through recovery, you’ll learn that you have choices when faced with pain. Those choices will either transform your pain, or transmit it. Join us today as we discuss the process of grief and “how to handle the pain.”
Discussion questions and shownotes are available at https://myfamilyofhope.org/podcast. To stay up-to-date or give a...
Duration:00:30:02
How to Get Through the Holidays
12/2/2019
Today we’re sharing a few tips to help you get through the difficult holiday weeks. It’s not a recipe for a pain-free Christmas, but it might be a little bit of peace and sanity through a challenging time of year. You never know, in letting go of some obligations and doing something new you could stumble into the most meaningful holiday season of your life.
Shownotes @ https://myfamilyofhope.org/podcast
Duration:00:18:00
Who to Tell
11/21/2019
Being thoughtful about who to tell is critical as you explore recovery! To continue to build a foundation of safety, you must use discretion and limit who you tell about the infidelity and what kind of information you share. In this episode we talk about:
Shownotes and discussion questions are available at https//myfamilyofhope.org/podcast.
Duration:00:29:30
How Will I Ever Trust My Spouse Again?
9/16/2019
How will I ever trust my spouse again? A question anyone facing a betrayal asks themselves over and over again! In the absence of trust, a couple must learn to create safety for each other both inside and outside the relationship. In this episode Nick and Bekah talk through what it takes to rebuild a foundation of trust by giving you 10 ways to create safety inside your relationship. This will help you to create an emotional environment that is supportive of a healthy recovery.
Duration:00:26:00
Liz Jones- What I've Learned
8/26/2019
In a profound turn-around, Liz Jones is now the Associate Pastor over Marriage Crisis under the Care Department at Gateway Church. She is the head of an incredible crisis marriage team that has served thousands of people to-date and is still growing! I talked to Liz about this beautiful evolution, and asked her all kinds of questions about what she’s learned about Affair Recovery over the years. We talk about:
Shownotes and discussion questions are available at...
Duration:00:38:38
Liz + Jeff's Story
8/5/2019
On today’s show our friends Liz and Jeff share their journey through infidelity. Themes of our conversation include how our family of origin impacts the lens we view marriage through, ways that shame keeps us stuck, “rules of engagement” when recovering from infidelity, why they stayed even when everything fell apart, and what “making it” really means. Liz and Jeff also share several things they did wrong, and some things they did right… you won’t want to miss this one!
Show notes and...
Duration:00:37:13
How to Choose a Therapist
7/15/2019
The world of counseling and therapy can be so intimidating! Today we hope to make it a little easier by tackling the topic “How to Choose a Therapist.” I interviewed my friend Meredith Tilton, associate pastor of biblical counseling at Gateway Church. We discuss the difference between biblical counseling and licensed professional therapy, the cost of therapy and how to make it work, what kind of questions to ask a prospective counselor or therapist and much more. We hope this incredibly...
Duration:00:33:40
A Quick Check-In
6/12/2019
Nick and Bekah stop by with a quick check-in to talk about where the show is headed, and what to expect moving forward.
Duration:00:06:26
Pornography- Part 2
5/11/2019
It’s one thing to understand the impact of pornography, it’s another thing to break free and walk away from it. In this episode, we have an unscripted conversation about Nick’s journey from addiction to freedom. We share strategies and techniques that did NOT work, as well as some that did. We also talk about what it feels like to live with shame, the difference between “sobriety” and true freedom, and how connection with God and others made the ultimate difference.
Duration:00:33:52
The Whole Truth
3/26/2019
What does your spouse really need to know?
In this episode we address full disclosure and why it’s SO important in the early stages of recovery. We also talk about the consequences of withholding information, and suggest some tips for keeping “discovery” a safe process for both parties.
Detailed show notes, and discussion questions are available at www.myfamilyofhope.org/podcast.
Duration:00:34:06
Is this the end?
3/4/2019
On today’s show, we’re asking the question: is this the end? Should an affair mean the end of a marriage? We’re addressing:
For detailed show notes, and discussion questions visit http://myfamilyofhope.org/podcast. For our latest blog, additional resources, and contact information visit Nick and Bekah at Family of Hope.
Duration:00:33:19
Nick and Bekah's story- Part 2
2/10/2019
In part two of Nick and Bekah's story we're talking all about our affair recovery process and the lifestyle of healing we're now committed to. We'll discuss the role of faith in our healing journey and share all of the details of our extravagant redemption.
For detailed show notes, including discussion questions and links to additional resources visit www.myfamilyofhope.org/podcast.
Duration:00:23:55