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Send us a text In this episode, Max and I take you on a journey into the fascinating world of kink, intimacy, and self-discovery. We discuss how communication, understanding desires, and exploring vulnerabilities can deepen human connection and bring fulfillment to relationships. This conversation goes beyond kink, touching on universal themes of identity, personal growth, and emotional intimacy. Max shares the powerful RGB Framework for self-exploration, while I reflect on the importance of meaningful conversations and breaking free from societal stigmas. Whether you're curious about the world of kink or seeking ways to strengthen your relationships, this episode offers valuable insights into connection, consent, and individuality. 💡 Episode Breakdown 00:00 Introduction: Exploring Intimacy and Connection 02:45 Max and Roula: Breaking the Ice on Kink 06:10 What Is Kink? Redefining Stigmas and Understanding Desire 11:30 The RGB Framework: Red (Focus), Green (Role), Blue (Sensation) 16:55 Applying the RGB Model to Relationships and Everyday Life 22:20 Culture and Individual Expression: Finding Your Place in the World 29:15 Intimacy Beyond the Physical: Building Emotional Fulfillment 34:40 Navigating the Kink Community: Safety, Consent, and Exploration 41:50 Overcoming Fear: Starting Conversations About Vulnerabilities 46:10 Breaking Myths: Why Kink Communities Are Safe and Inclusive 52:25 Closing Thoughts: Embracing Curiosity and Finding Fulfillment Key Topics - Breaking the Ice on Kink: Understanding and addressing the stigma surrounding conversations about kink and desire. - The RGB Framework: Max’s unique approach to exploring focus, roles, and sensations in intimacy and life. - Cultural Norms and Subcultures: How societal values influence intimacy, individuality, and personal fulfillment. - The Power of Emotional Intimacy: Roula’s reflections on the importance of meaningful conversations and vulnerability. - Consent and Safety in Kink Communities: Debunking myths about kink parties and fostering respectful environments. Takeaways - Communication and consent are the foundation of any meaningful relationship. - Exploring your desires can lead to greater self-awareness and fulfillment. - Emotional intimacy and intellectual connection are just as vital as physical intimacy. - Being true to yourself o Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In this episode, we explore the incredible journey of Angela, who overcame immense odds to become a USA and World Champion in bodybuilding. Faced with the expiration of her visa and the possibility of leaving the country she loved, Angela used her resilience and determination to secure her place in America by lifting its name on the global stage. Angela’s story is one of grit, ambition, and inspiration as she navigates challenges to achieve greatness—all while charting a path for others to follow in fitness, health, and self-belief. 💪🇺🇸 She shares her struggles and triumphs, offering insights into the mental and physical discipline it takes to reach such heights. Angela's passion for empowering underdogs shines through as she inspires others to rewrite their own stories and pursue their dreams. Episode Breakdown 00:00 Introduction: Angela’s Story and the American Dream 02:35 Meet Angela: From Germany to the USA 06:12 The Visa Deadline: A Challenge That Sparked Action 10:23 The Birth of a Champion: Angela’s Decision to Compete 15:40 Training Without a Team: Overcoming Financial and Emotional Hurdles 21:18 USA Bikini and the Stage: The Big Moment 26:33 Becoming Miss USA and Miss World 31:55 Lessons from Bodybuilding: Discipline, Mindset, and Strength 36:24 Building a Legacy: Helping Underdogs Find Strength 41:05 Tips for Building Resilience and Achieving Goals 48:15 Angela’s Vision for Health and Nutrition 53:10 Closing Thoughts: Empowering Yourself and Others Key Topics - The Road to Championship Titles: How Angela used bodybuilding to make her mark. - Building Resilience: Overcoming challenges when the odds are against you. - Health and Nutrition Insights: Angela’s approach to sustainable fitness. - Pursuing Your Dreams: Lessons for anyone facing seemingly impossible odds. - Empowering the Underdog: Using success to uplift and inspire others. Takeaways - Challenges can be stepping stones to greatness. - Resilience and determination can overcome almost any obstacle. - Health and fitness are transformative tools for both body and mind. - A strong mindset is crucial for long-term success. - Sharing your journey can inspire others to achieve their goals. Connect with Angela - Website: https://www.houseofshape.com/ Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text It’s Christmas Day, and maybe no one’s listening—or maybe a lot of you are. Either way, I’ve got something to share. This year has been a wild ride, but today I’m focusing on gratitude. 🎄 What’s in this episode? The Rosie & Roula Show💬 Why I love this episode: I share how I made Christmas different this year—less about perfection, more about connection. Rosie and I also get real about the stress, the marketing madness, and the fact that family gatherings aren’t always picture-perfect. 🎧 Tune in and let me know what you think! I hope this episode inspires you to let go of the holiday stress and embrace the moments that matter. And hey, if you disagree, I’d love to hear from you too. Wishing you a peaceful end to 2024 and a wonderful start to 2025. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In this episode, we dive deep into a crucial conversation about how men can break free from societal pressures, redefine their worth, and find fulfillment in all aspects of their lives. Jason, an expert in men's work, shares his insights on the challenges men face in today's world, and how they can step into their full potential. He guides us on how men can overcome the challenges by embracing vulnerability, self-compassion, and deep emotional connection. With practical advice and empowering insights, Jason helps guide men on the path to greater fulfillment and freedom. 00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of Modern Men 00:35 The Evolution of Gender Roles 01:33 The Disconnection from the Body 03:38 The Inner World of Men 06:26 The Archetypes of Men 08:32 The Impact of Isolation 10:11 Personal Journey to Inner Work 13:17 The Role of Emotions 24:50 The Importance of Men's Groups 30:35 Teaching Emotional Responsibility 38:33 Modeling and Physical Activity for Boys 39:47 A Personal Story of Letting Kids Get Dirty 42:44 The Importance of Men's Groups 47:38 Balancing Physical and Emotional Health 51:48 Energy Management and Vitality 57:10 Overcoming Fear of Failure 01:01:46 Supporting Men in Personal Growth Key Tpoics: - Rewriting the Script of Masculinity - The Power of Being Seen and Appreciated - Emotional Awareness and Connection - The Role of Men’s Groups and Support Systems - Practical Tools for Women Supporting Men - Breaking Free from the “Do More, Be More” Mindset Take aways: - Men's Self-Worth Beyond Achievements. - The Power of Appreciation. - Connecting Through Men’s Groups. - Helping Men Access Their Emotions. - Transformation through Embodiment. Connect with Jason Lange: - Website: [evolutionary.men] (https://evolutionary.men/) - Instagram: [@evolutionarymen] (https://www.instagram.com/evolutionarymen/) - Podcast: Available on all major platforms. https://open.spotify.com/show/4jQr495pFaJk3E9YnkUK9l Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In this episode, explore the transformative journey of overcoming codependency through the personal story of Barb Nangle who discovered the importance of boundaries at 52. Emphasized is the deep dive into the 12-step recovery programs like Al Anon and Codependents Anonymous, the significance of building self-worth, and the pivotal role of boundaries. Uncover insights on dealing with guilt and shame, support systems, and the challenges of reshaping ingrained behaviors. The episode sheds light on the stark realization of personal issues and the empowering path to redefining relationships and personal integrity. 00:00 Introduction to Boundaries and Codependency 00:16 The Codependent Bottom: A Personal Story 01:15 The Unraveling: Inviting Dan Home 03:01 Realization and Recovery: Discovering Al Anon 04:14 The Journey to Codependents Anonymous 06:54 Discovering Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACOA) 09:41 Building Healthy Boundaries 13:55 The Role of Values in Setting Boundaries 14:21 Struggles with Addiction and Self-Worth 16:25 Understanding Self-Love and Self-Worth 17:30 The Impact of Negative Self-Talk 19:04 The Importance of Healthy Boundaries 20:32 The Role of Support Systems in Recovery 21:34 The Misconceptions About Boundaries 25:05 Personal Reflections on Family Dynamics 26:48 The Effects of Dysfunctional Families 31:10 Gaslighting and Trust Issues 35:33 Discovering Family Secrets 36:17 Understanding Dysfunctional Families 37:02 Therapy and Recovery Journey 39:13 The Impact of Gossip 40:52 Building Healthy Boundaries 44:40 Values and Boundary Setting 50:48 The Role of Recovery Programs 01:04:30 Compassion and Observations 01:05:45 Final Takeaways and Resources Connect with Barb Tingle: - Website: [Higher Power Coaching](https://higherpowercc.com/) - Instagram: [@higherpowercoaching] (https://www.instagram.com/higherpowercoaching/) - Podcast: Available on all major platforms. https://open.spotify.com/show/32Pgvp1awrpZAgLCeJopy6?si=9a22b2df07e54cbb Key Takeaways - Barb's Codependent Journey - Catalyst for Change - Discovery of 12-Step Programs - Reparenting and Self-Worth - Building Healthy Boundaries - Overcoming People-Pleasing - Impact of Support Systems Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In this heartfelt and raw episode, my guest Nick Drivas shares his gripping journey through porn addiction starting from the young age of 12, the immense loneliness he faced growing up with a sick grandmother, and how he used porn, junk food, and isolation as coping mechanisms. As his addiction deepened, Nick discusses his struggles with self-worth, failed dreams of becoming a basketball player, suicidal thoughts, and toxic relationships. Turning his life around, Nick found purpose through personal development, disciplined fitness regimes, coaching, and self-reflection. He highlights the importance of community, mentorship, and aligning with one's purpose to combat addictive behaviors and build a fulfilling life. Topics on this episode: 🔞 Overcoming Porn Addiction 💔 Mental Health and Loneliness 🧑 Navigating Addiction in Adolescence 🧑‍🏫 The Role of Mentorship in Recovery and Growth 💪 Building Self-Discipline Through Adversity 🎯 Setting and Reaching Goals After Addiction 🌱 Finding Purpose and Building a Future After Struggle 🤝 Supporting Others Through Shared Struggles 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics and Personal Growth 🌟 Redefining Success and Self-Worth Episode Timeline: 00:00 The Beginning of a Struggle 01:06 Loneliness and Early Influences 01:43 The Impact of Family and Environment 02:35 Escaping Reality Through Porn 03:59 The Downward Spiral 07:18 Chasing Dreams Amidst Addiction 10:23 The Turning Point 15:09 The Battle with Self-Esteem 19:16 Finding Purpose and Facing Setbacks 23:04 The Road to Recovery 28:44 Struggling with Addiction and Despair 29:26 Hitting Rock Bottom 31:10 Seeking Help and Making a Change 32:00 Building New Habits and Finding Success 36:12 Maintaining Discipline and Overcoming Temptation 41:12 Helping Others and Expanding Horizons 43:31 Finding Purpose and Personal Growth 52:46 The Importance of Coaching and Accountability 54:22 Defining What is 'Dope' for You you can connect with Nick on his Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nickdrivasfit?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In this episode, I explore how change shapes our lives, and I reflect on pivotal life changes and their impact on my journey. ✨ Episode Highlights: . How Do You Feel About Change? . Why I’m Talking About Change Today . My Journey Through Change: 1️⃣ Moving to the Netherlands 2️⃣ Divorce 3️⃣ Finding Love Again 4️⃣ Another Major Move . Resilience and Growth 🎧 Episodes to Check Out While I’m Away for a Few Weeks: 📻 Episode 34 on the podcast "The Pursuit of Freedom": . Going against tradition . The power of storytelling . Growing up during a war . Fighting for happiness . Navigating life in an abnormal society . Equality in marriage . 📻 Episode 65 on the podcast "F*ck It Mothering”: . New mom challenges as an immigrant . Struggles of being a stay-at-home mom . Breastfeeding difficulties and mom guilt . Divorce and co-parenting . Remarriage and having another child . Setting boundaries as a mom 🔜 **What’s Next?** I'll return with new episodes that delve deeper into the power of transformation. Stay tuned! 📲 Stay Connected: Follow the podcast on your favorite app to stay updated! Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In this episode I discuss the pervasive issue of people-pleasing from a feminine perspective. First I share with you my perspective that emphasizes on how women are conditioned to prioritize others' needs. My Guest Marina Pearson shares her journey of overcoming people-pleasing, driven by her fear of abandonment in romantic relationships. Marina delves into how these tendencies led to self-abandonment, codependency, and burnout, and how she eventually embraced her true desires and authenticity. We explore relationship dynamics, the importance of expressing one's truth, and how understanding masculine and feminine energies can transform personal connections. Marina provides insights from her books and therapeutic practices, aiming to guide listeners towards healthier, fulfilling relationships. 00:00 Introduction to the Life Affairs Podcast 00:29 The People Pleasing Dilemma 01:02 Personal Reflections on People Pleasing 02:20 Cultural and Familial Influences 03:12 Introducing Marina Pearson 04:33 Marina's Journey of Self-Discovery 08:23 Understanding Insecure Attachment 11:51 The Path to Authentic Relationships 22:19 The Role of Vulnerability 26:45 A Weekend of Misunderstandings 28:22 Unraveling the Conflict 28:58 Communicating Needs and Emotions 31:04 Breaking Old Patterns 33:34 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Dynamics 37:55 Appreciation and Communication 44:20 Raising Boys Differently 47:30 Choosing the Right Partner 50:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Take the People pleasing Quiz Go the Marina's Website: https://www.marinapearson.com/are-you-a-people-pleaser Learn more on how to unshackle yourself and connect with Marina by listening to her podcast: https://www.marinapearson.com/unshackled-podcast Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text Prepare to navigate the intricate journey of caring for aging parents with our expert guest, Janice Goldmintz , who brings a wealth of knowledge in gerontology and personal experience in Alzheimer's care. Janice shares invaluable insights on how to kickstart those crucial conversations about future care, even before it becomes a pressing need. Learn how to create a supportive caregiving network by addressing sensitive topics such as end-of-life preferences and caregiving responsibilities with empathy and understanding. Together, we explore the dynamics of family discussions, particularly the importance of siblings coming together to ensure their parents' well-being. From identifying early signs that parents may need help to managing sibling dynamics and resistance from parents, this episode offers practical advice to handle these challenging situations. We also delve into the unique approaches required for caring for parents with physical illnesses versus dementia or Alzheimer's, emphasizing the emotional and unpredictable nature of each scenario. Finally, we address the broader societal and workplace implications of caregiving. Discover how creating positive memories and embracing aging with dignity can improve the quality of life for your loved ones. We also highlight the need for supportive workplace policies that accommodate employees balancing work with caregiving duties. This conversation is designed to equip you with practical tips and mindset shifts to better handle the complexities of caregiving, ensuring a richer life experience for everyone involved. Connect with Janice by visiting her website: http://www.talkaboutaging.com/ You can find her book here: http://talkaboutaging.com/index.php Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text Have you ever wondered about the fascinating world of sexual fantasies and their impact on our lives? Join me in my latest episode where Artemisia De Vine immerses us deeply into the psychology behind sexual fantasies and how they can bring intimacy and invigoration back into long-term relationships. 💡 🎙️ Topics we cover: 🔶 The role of fantasies in overcoming ego resistance 💖How sexual fantasies can break down ego walls 🔶 How fantasies can be a roadmap to deeper intimacy 💖The balance between safety and vulnerability in intimate relationships 🔶 Tools for unlocking and communicating your desires 💖Techniques to discuss and share your fantasies safely This episode is a journey into the secret lives of our minds, revealing how understanding and sharing our fantasies can transform our sexual and emotional well-being. We into the world of sex, sexual pleasure, and sexual fantasies with Artemisia Devine, a certified somatic sexologist and expert on sexual fantasies. The conversation covers provocative and informative topics, including communication tips, self-discovery, and the importance of understanding and sharing sexual fantasies within safe, consensual boundaries. The episode also highlights the transformative power of sexual fantasies and how they can lead to deeper intimacy and higher pleasure consciousness. Listeners are invited to explore their own desires through a free course on the 'Celeb Swoon Technique' offered by Artemisia. 00:00 Introduction and Content Warning 00:43 Welcome to the Life Affairs Podcast 02:29 Meet the Guest: Artemisia Devine 03:33 Understanding Sexual Fantasies 11:53 The Role of Ego in Sexual Fantasies 18:03 The Celeb Swoon Technique 28:06 Keeping the Fire Burning in Long-Term Relationships 36:43 The Magic of Fantasy 37:43 Training Through Communication 39:23 Understanding Erotic Psychology 40:54 Resolving Sexual Paradoxes 42:19 The Role of Sexual Fantasies 47:32 Navigating Respect and Consent 49:21 Creating Safe Erotic Spaces 58:28 The Wisdom of Desire 01:07:54 Celebrity Swoon Technique 01:11:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement https://MyFantasyIs.com The Celeb Swoon Technique: Learn about your unique sexual psychology by taking a closer look at your fav swoon-worthy celebs at MyFantasyIs.com. and you can follow Artemisia De Vine on her website Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text Today, my guest is Matt O'Neill, a leader in happiness education and author of "The Good Mood Revolution." Matt recounts his transformative journey from chronic bad moods to achieving a consistent state of gratitude and self-love. He underscores the importance of taking responsibility for one's emotions, dismantling anger through self-inquiry, and adopting habits that foster positivity. The conversation delves into strategies for maintaining a good mood at work, enhancing parent-child relationships, and navigating collective bad moods during challenging times. Listeners will gain practical tips on gratitude exercises, the significance of kindness, and how small changes can lead to substantial improvements in mental well-being. 00:00 Introduction to the Life Affairs Podcast 00:28 Personal Struggles and Breakthroughs 01:34 Moving to the Netherlands: A New Beginning 02:29 Introducing Matt O'Neill 03:28 A Sudden Change in Routine 05:25 Understanding and Managing Anger 09:25 Matt's Personal Journey with Anger 22:55 Parenting and Emotional Well-being 35:08 Workplace Culture and Kindness 37:53 Handling Difficult Employees with Compassion 39:27 Understanding Unkindness in the Workplace 42:20 Addressing Unkind Managers and Colleagues 53:05 Maintaining Positivity in Challenging Times 59:14 Daily Practices for a Positive Mindset 01:08:36 The Power of Laughter and Exercise 01:13:25 Conclusion and Final Thoughts You can connect with Matt O'Neill on the following platforms: His Website: https://www.goodmoodshow.com/https://mattoneill.com/ Here is the link to the Good Mood Bad 💪 Mood Quiz. His podcast page Is on there and where ever you listen to your podcast, and again here is hotel ink directly to the podcast: https://mattoneill.com/podcast/ His book "Good Mood Revolution" will be available soon on Amazon and other sellers. Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In this episode, my guest Terry Short author of the book "the words we chose: Your Guide to How and Why Words Matter." discusses her lifelong draw to words and how their impact on her personal and professional life led her to write a book about effective communication. She shares her experiences with how different people, including her parents, children, and workplace leaders, use words and the significant changes they can invoke. The conversation covers the generational and cultural shifts in word usage, the importance of choosing the right words, and strategies for people in leadership and healthcare to communicate more effectively. Terry provides practical examples of words that convey uncertainty and offers better alternatives. The discussion extends to the benefits of small talk, the importance of active listening, and the challenges of maintaining meaningful conversations. Finally, Terry emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and presence in communication and shares tips for empathetic responses, especially in sensitive situations like grief. 00:00 Introduction: The Power of Words 00:19 Parental Influence and Early Experiences 01:07 Workforce Observations and Leadership 01:29 Writing the Book: Inspiration and Themes 02:20 Generational Differences in Communication 02:52 Leadership Communication Challenges 03:32 Healthcare Communication Issues 06:47 Internal Narratives and Self-Confidence 12:21 The Importance of Small Talk 16:06 Mastering Small Talk: Tips and Techniques 21:50 The Role of Silence in Communication 25:31 Mindfulness and Self-Reflection 28:23 The Art of Asking Questions 29:20 The Power of Curiosity 29:58 Avoiding 'Why' Questions 30:33 Engaging Questions for Deeper Connections 35:14 Handling Difficult Conversations 38:40 Active Listening Techniques 48:18 The Importance of Word Choice 51:39 Writing the Book: A Personal Journey Memorable Quotes: - "Silence isn't empty, it's full of answers." – Terre Short - "Ask more, tell less. Be interested instead of interesting." – Terre Short - "We get to do the laundry, we don't have to do the laundry." – Terre Short To Purchase Terre Short's book, go to: - https://www.thrivingleadercollaborative.com/product/the-words-we-choose Connect with Terre Short: - https://www.thrivingleadercollaborative.com - Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text My guest Kelly Dupee shares a personal story about a pivotal moment in his marriage when his wife expressed her unhappiness and desire to feel special. He reflects on the changes he made to prioritize her feelings and improve their relationship. The discussion covers practical tips for men to better understand and communicate with their wives, the importance of handling conflicts calmly, and strategies for both partners to feel valued and trusted. Kelly also introduces concepts like 'just because' gifts and the importance of expressing appreciation in a marriage. In this episode it is about the transformation for the couple's life when they seek understanding, communicate effectively, and find common ground to build a strong, lasting relationship. 🎙️ 00:00 Introduction and Episode Teaser 🎉 00:29 Welcome to the Life Affairs Podcast 🙌 01:39 Introducing Kelly Dupee 🌟 02:10 Kelly's Journey to a Happier Marriage 💖 04:59 The Power of Small Acts of Kindness 🛡️ 07:03 Handling Criticism and Building Trust 🗣️ 12:30 Effective Communication Strategies 🔍 27:33 Understanding Gender Differences in Relationships 💊 35:39 A Dose of Reality: Missteps in Caregiving 🌧️ 36:01 The Unseen Challenges of Marriage 🧠 36:31 The Skill of Successful Marriage 👂 37:38 The Power of Listening and Understanding 🛠️ 39:30 Tools for Better Communication 🔥 39:52 Managing Anger in Relationships 🤝 43:24 Creating Win-Win Agreements 🔑 46:01 Steps to Achieve Mutual Understanding 💪 55:51 The Importance of Practicing Relationship Skills 🏅 01:02:36 The Role of Marriage Coaching 🔔 01:04:01 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview Here's the link to his book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Turn-Up-lifelong-marriage-really-ebook/dp/B09FB4BC1R Connect with Kelly on https://turnitup.coach/75 His Facebook page is: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.dupee/ free copy of the book? connect with Kelly and mention Roula. Muziek by Music by Yevhen Onoychenko from

Send us a text In this episode of the Life Affairs Podcast, I explore the liberating journey of Rosie, a high achieving academic who chose to pursue her dreams over societal expectations by living and working from her Van while traveling around Australia. Rosie shares her story, highlighting the catalyst of her mother’s death and how it spurred her to embrace a nomadic lifestyle despite initial obstacles like the breakup with her partner. She delves into the challenges of converting her Van into a livable space without prior experience, the importance of community in the van life, and how minimalism has influenced her happiness. The episode also covers the technical and emotional aspects of living a non-traditional life, emphasizing self-discovery, the value of communities such as the Free Spirited Sisterhood, and the deeper connections fostered by this lifestyle. Rosie’s story is a testament to finding freedom and fulfillment by courageously pursuing one’s dreams against conventional norms. 00:00 Introduction to the Life Affairs Podcast 00:41 Meet Rosie: A Journey to Freedom and Van Life 02:05 Rosie's Life-Changing Decision: From Grief to Van Life 03:11 Navigating Challenges and Embracing Change 04:33 The Breakup That Paved the Way for True Freedom 09:22 The Minimalist Van Life: Letting Go and Living More 13:51 Learning Through Trial and Error: The Van Conversion Process 18:04 Exploring New Horizons: Rosie's Travels in Australia 19:03 Embracing Van Life: A Journey of Discovery 19:13 Finding Inspiration and Fulfillment on the Road 20:01 The Challenges and Joys of Van Life Solitude 20:47 Building Connections in the Van Life Community 21:58 Van Life Conversations: Beyond the Surface 24:04 Navigating the Practicalities of Van Life 26:53 A Day in the Life: Van Life Routines and Work 32:10 The Power of Community in Van Life 32:46 Breaking Stereotypes: The Free Spirited Sisterhood 37:37 The Pursuit of Freedom: Rosie's Podcast and Community 38:47 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to Join the Community You can follow Rosie on https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosie-burrows/ Listen to her podcast on https://pursuit-of-freedom.captivate.fm/ Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text 🌟 Exploring Yearnings Today ✨ "We are not meant for stagnation. We are meant to grow." - Melody Beattie Ever scrolled through social media? 🤯 Travel brags, dream jobs, beachside workcations, perfect moms. Suddenly, your heart aches for something just out of reach. ✨ You're not alone. 🤝 Guided by curiosity, I embark on a stroll through the beautiful dunes around the North Sea, leading me to an expansive, unexploited beach. 🌊 My guide invites us to delve into my yearnings, presenting me with a bag of tiny crystals, each representing a longing within. 💎 With each crystal, I confront my desires, embracing the freedom to explore my innermost thoughts and feelings. 🔥❤️ As I scatter the crystals, I discover a sense of release and acceptance, acknowledging both my aspirations for growth and my need to let go. 🌈 Emptying the bag signifies a journey of self-discovery and newfound contentment. 🛤️ I leave the beach, filled with gratitude and anticipation for the next chapter of my life. And together, we share our yearnings. 💬 We all have yearnings, sometimes fierce or subtle, that shape our lives. How do you navigate and honor yours? 🔗 Music credit: Relaxing Ocean Waves https://pixabay.com/nl/sound-effects/relaxing-ocean-waves-high-quality-recorded-177004/ Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text In dit emotionele en diepgaande gesprek met Pieter, een voormalig militair, ondernemer en mental coach, delen we zijn reis vanaf zijn tijd in het leger tot aan zijn transformatie naar een leven gebaseerd op authenticiteit en zelfliefde. Welkom terug bij de podcast! Vandaag hebben we een inspirerend gesprek voor mensen met verschillende achtergronden. Of je nu te maken hebt gehad met pesten, een militaire carrière hebt gehad, of op zoek bent naar een balans tussen werk en privé, dit gesprek is voor jou. We duiken diep in het leven van Pieter, een voormalig militair die nu als mental coach werkt, en ontdekken hoe hij zijn weg heeft gevonden naar innerlijke rust en zelfacceptatie. Pieter's verhaal begint met zijn moeilijkheden na zijn laatste militaire missie. Hij worstelde met zijn identiteit en merkte de impact van zijn stress op zijn relatie met zijn dochter op. Na zijn ontslag bij defensie, vond Pieter werk als verpleegkundige in een ziekenhuis en later als zzp'er en instructeur bij defensie. Maar hij voelde al snel de druk van overwerk en besloot een balans te vinden tussen werk en privé. Zijn gezinsleven was een bron van steun, vooral zijn vrouw, die hem door vier uitzendingen en zijn moeilijkste tijden steunde. Pieter's eigen mentale gezondheid leed echter na zijn militaire dienst. Hij worstelde met agressie, angst en slapeloosheid, maar schaamte weerhield hem ervan hulp te zoeken. Het was pas tijdens zijn opleiding tot mental coach dat Pieter zijn ware zelf begon te ontdekken. Hij leerde de kracht van kwetsbaarheid en het belang van authenticiteit. Nu werkt Pieter als mental coach en helpt hij anderen om balans te vinden en zelfliefde te cultiveren. Hij gelooft dat iedereen inspirerend kan zijn door gewoon zichzelf te zijn. Zijn reis naar zelfacceptatie heeft hem geleerd dat geluk niet afhangt van materiële zaken, maar van innerlijke rust en zelfliefde. Hij moedigt anderen aan om hun eigen pad naar zelfontdekking te volgen en om hulp en feedback te omarmen. Dit was een diepgaand gesprek dat ons herinnert aan het belang van authentiek zijn en zelfliefde, ongeacht onze achtergrond of ervaringen. Bedankt voor het luisteren naar deze aflevering en vergeet niet om te abonneren voor meer inspirerende verhalen en inzichten. Tot de volgende keer! 00:00 De Impact van Pesten: Een Persoonlijk Verhaal 02:53 Van Basisschool tot Middelbare: De Strijd tegen Pesten 03:42 Thuis en Vriendschappen: Zoeken naar Veiligheid 11:29 De Keuze voor Defensie: Een Nieuwe Start Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text As I reflected on my experiences during the theater show, I realize the importance of community unity and support in times of crisis. While the discussions on stage provide valuable insights, it is my own lived experiences that truly underscore the human cost of war and the imperative of working together to build a more peaceful future. I am at the live theatre show of the 'Veldheren' podcast by retired generals Peter van Uhm and Mart de Kruif, focusing on war's complexities and implications. I am Seated uncomfortably, As the show progress, my mind drifts back to my own experiences during the war. I recall the uncertainty and fear that permeated daily life, the constant threat of violence lurking just beyond our doorstep. Survival became a daily struggle, requiring resourcefulness, resilience, and above all, community support. One vivid memory that stood out was the importance of building relationships with neighbors. In times of crisis, these connections proved invaluable, fostering solidarity and mutual aid. Together, we navigated the challenges of food shortages, power outages, and the ever-present threat of danger. I remembered the lengths my family went to ensure our survival, from securing important documents to stockpiling essential supplies like food, water, and blankets. Every decision was made with careful consideration of our safety and well-being, a testament to the resilience of the human spirit in the face of adversity. Despite the hardships, there were moments of levity and camaraderie amidst the chaos. We found solace in simple pleasures like playing cards, sharing stories, and finding humor in the darkest of times. 00:00 Introduction: Attending a Live Theatre Show 00:09 The Discomfort of the Theatre Experience 00:29 Understanding the Purpose of the Show 00:46 The Expertise of the Speakers 01:03 The Podcast 'Fieldlords' and Its Presenters 01:49 Audience Questions: Preparing for War 02:06 Personal Anxieties and Intimidation 02:36 Survival Tips: Building Relationships and Unity 03:46 Importance of Preparedness: Documents and Supplies 04:29 Seeking Refuge and Fortifying the Shelter 05:26 Generating Electricity in Times of War 06:10 Securing Food and Water Supplies 10:51 Surviving the Cold and Keeping Entertained 12:17 Memorable War-Time Anecdotes 17:48 The Importance of Community and Unity 18:41 Reflections and Future Preparations 20:56 Conclusion: Gra Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text I turned 50 begin January; in this episode I talk about my experiences and my perspectives on aging and how it impacts job seeking. I share my personal journey, reshaping my CV not only with professional experiences but also with life teachings, and difficulties I faced due to age-related stereotypes. I encourage active defiance of such stereotypes and promotes embracing age as a means to acquire wisdom and resilience. Having navigated the realms of career, parenting, and societal expectations, I underscore that age is merely a number and does not limit capabilities. The episode serves as an empowering narrative for those navigating life after 50. 00:00 Introduction: Reflecting on Turning 50 01:03 Welcome to the Life Affairs Podcast 01:31 Embracing Age: Turning 50 02:49 Rewriting My CV at 50 03:48 Introducing Rebellina: A New Identity 04:15 Professional Experience and Skills 07:37 Education and Life Lessons 08:23 Conclusion: Life at 50 and Beyond 09:22 Outro: Wrapping Up the Podcast Keywords: turning 50, challenges, job seekers, hiring, age group, future, learnings, message, embrace, radical change, perspective, Life Affairs Podcast, life experiences, lessons learned, no judgment, understanding, milestone, job hunting, professional curdle, hiring managers, recruiters, mirror, aging infection, vintage wine, world chatter, career disabled, CV, seasoned touch, master of life, resilience, wise beyond her years, equality, gender norms, mature excellence, juggler of responsibilities, raising two young adults, post-war world, self control, patriarchy, equality advocate, ageism, teleportation, wisdom, maternal mastery, battlefield resilience, North War, living room resembling a battlefield, motherhood, humor, therapeutic proficiency, life at 50, new chapter. Music by 17406877 from Pixabay Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text Paula, een voormalige televisieprofessional en kankeroverlevende, is mijn gast en deelt haar ervaring met het bestrijden van kanker te midden van haar carrière en de impact hiervan op haar gemeenschap. Terwijl ze de tumultueuze weg bewandelt van werk naar ziekte naar mogelijke impact op de gemeenschap, worstelt Paula met het onbekende fysieke ongemak en emotionele onrust veroorzaakt door haar diagnose, samen met het kritische oog van haar werkgever en de bredere gemeenschap. Tijdens haar diagnose beschrijft Paula het verontrustende ongemak dat ze al maandenlang ervoer, waaronder fysieke vermoeidheid en een algemeen gevoel van malaise. Eenmaal bevestigd door een medisch professional dat ze kanker had, deelt Paula hoe de realiteit van haar diagnose haar de wereld om haar heen op een fundamenteel nieuwe manier deed waarnemen. De diagnose had onmiddellijk invloed op haar dagelijks leven, relaties en carrière. Paula verwordt een intens verlangen om te blijven werken en verbonden te blijven met haar gemeenschap. Deze overtuigende motivatie leidt haar naar een confrontatie met de heersende systemen en structuren rond ziekte en werk. Specifiek worstelt Paula met de rigide regels opgelegd door haar werkgever en het Uitvoeringsinstituut Werknemersverzekeringen (UWV). Ingebed in het Nederlandse sociale zekerheidssysteem benadrukken Paula's worstelingen bredere systemische kwesties rond ziekte, werk en maatschappelijke verwachtingen. Terwijl Paula worstelt met de opgelegde beperkte werkuren en de onmiddellijke effecten van haar nieuw waargenomen beperkingen, worstelt ze met het gevoel van isolatie dat haar ziekte met zich meebrengt. Echter, Paula's confrontatie met dit probleem inspireerde haar om een platform te creëren om anderen in haar situatie te helpen. Samen met een mede-ouder van de school van haar kind richt ze 'Toegevoegde Waarde' op, een stichting die is ontworpen om gestructureerde werkgelegenheidskansen te creëren voor mensen met aanzienlijke gezondheidsproblemen, waaronder kanker. Paula benadrukt het belang van de mogelijkheid om te blijven werken, zelfs na een diagnose van kanker. Ze benadrukt het belang van het behouden van een verbinding met het dagelijks leven, waarbij ze stelt dat zelfs degenen in langdurige kankerbehandeling niet beperkt zouden moeten worden in hun bijdrage aan hun gemeenschappen. 00:00 Inleiding tot het verhaal van Paula 00:05 Vroege Symptomen en Diagnose van Paula 04:00 Impact van Ziekte op Werk en Levensstijl 08:04 De Emotionele Tol van de Diagnose 13:11 Na Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com

Send us a text Growing Up Amidst Tension In this opening, I explore my upbringing in Lebanon, where animosity between Lebanese and Palestinians cast a long shadow. The conflict's impact on my personal life and relationships sets the stage for the narrative. A Family's Unique Story I delve into my family history, marked by my Christian Palestinian mother and my Lebanese father. Despite their love, their union faced resistance, offering a unique perspective on the complexities of identity and belonging. The Spark of Conflict The year 1975 signifies the start of the Lebanese war and my birth. I provide historical context and investigate the role Palestinians played in the outbreak of the conflict, igniting the tensions. Ain al-Rummaneh and the Escalation I examine the tragic incident of April 13, 1975, in Ain al-Rummaneh. It serves as a turning point, escalating violence and sectarian conflicts throughout Lebanon. The Phalangists and Sabra/Shatila The Phalangists, a Christian militia, become embroiled in armed clashes, including the infamous Sabra and Shatila massacre in 1982. I discuss the controversial role they played during the civil war. Us Versus Them - The Endless Cycle The ongoing blame game between different sides in the conflict takes a toll on me, and I reflect on the divisive narratives on social media and personal connections. Post-WWII Dreams and Palestinian Displacement I delve into the aftermath of World War II, highlighting the suffering of the Jewish people and the tragic displacement of the Palestinian people since 1948, despite their differing roles in the conflict. The Life of a Palestinian Refugee I share my mother's story as a Palestinian refugee, detailing the enduring hardships, the stripping of basic rights, and the pursuit of a better life. A Legacy of Conflict I circle back to the ongoing Israeli-Palestinian conflict and its impact on Israel and the Middle East, the enduring influence of world leaders and the growth of extremism. Lessons from the Past I reflect on the wisdom gained while growing up in the midst of conflict and its relevance to more recent events, such as 9/11 and the war on terror. 75 Years of Palestinian Suffering I emphasise the price paid by Palestinians since the Nakba in 1948 and the ongoing suffering. I also explore my personal worry about my mother's well-being in uncertain times. Contrasting Liv Hey, if you're listening to this podcast and benefiting from it, could you help me reach more like-minded listeners by rating it 5 stars? It only takes two seconds: just pause this episode and click on the stars! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on Google, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you listen. Your feedback helps me reach more listeners and continue to create content that helps you communicate better. Don’t forget to share this episode with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening! You can connect directly with me on: Roula@thelifeaffairspodcast.com you can also follow me and send me a DM on Instagram & Facebook https://www.instagram.com/roula_abou_haidar/ https://www.facebook.com/RoulaAbouHaidar/ And Follow me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/roulaabouhaidar All music on my episodes are credited to https://pixabay.com